Yes, you might be right in thinking she is totally from another planet. Women tend to deduce things differently and often, the conclusion is totally unexpected. Just like if and when she decided to take on another guy. You really can’t understand why she would do that – or why she would stray when things are going smoothly between the two of you; or is it really?
If you think she is straying on you and you want to be sure she really is, then you need to know these three basic things if a woman is having or thinking to have an affair with someone else.
1. Look at her age. No, it is not because she is old or feeling old that she wants to try her luck on her love life to another man. It is because a woman tend to re-evaluate her life every have decade starting when she reach the age of 25. So if your girlfriend or your wife is around these ages, every five years since she got 25, then she probably thinking of some major changes and that might include you. So if this is the case, think like her. Think that if you are her, would you think on dumping you? Is she getting from you what she wants out of her love life? Try to remember your conversations in the past about expectations; did she get it from you? Were you able to fulfill some of her whims about love and life? If not, then yes, she’d probably think of finding another man who would. Not that she would follow this thought through. What you can do to prevent this from happening, that is if you don’t want her to go, is to just be there for her. Does not really matter if you annoy or disappoint her somewhat but if you are the man who is there beside her every day then she won’t really stray.
2. Did she have so much free time away from you to have spent it with a friend who happens to be a another man? Does not really matter if they have known each other since they were in diapers as long as you have taken it for granted and just left her to bond with him then you got something to think about. She probably thinks on levelling her friendship with her childhood friend who happens to be a man up if you are always not there. You don’t take anything for granted. If she established a connection with a man, no matter how it seemed to be innocent, temptation will always be present to whisper suggestions into her ears. So don’t give her so much free time with him. If you can, be there if they bond too. You have to always remind your girlfriend, or wife, that you are her partner and you want things for keeps. So again, be there for her.
3. Did you cause her to doubt your devotion for her, like in a bout of anger you told her you don’t love her or that you don’t feel for her the way you did before? Then she is probably thinking on finding someone who will love her better. And if she happens to have someone who is always there around her, waiting for you and her to have some fall out, then you can say she is thinking on straying on you. Lesson to learn, don’t say things you don’t mean – that is if you don’t want to lose her.
So in the end, no matter what the cause of her thinking to stray on you, you just have to be there for her and this tempting thoughts will disappear.